Asking Wife To Use A Strapon

Many husbands have a need to be penetrated in the anus by their wife wearing a strapon. The problem for most husbands is they are to afraid to ask their wife to use a strapon. The reality is that most married women would love to use a strapon on their husbands but are also afraid to ask for fear of rejection.

The best way to get your wife to use a strapon is to start by dropping a few hints first. Get her to go to a sex shop with you saying that you want to buy her some sexy lingerie. While there you can admire the strapons and tell her it has always been your secret fantasy. If she responds you can buy the strapon right there in the shop and use it as son as you get home.

Or maybe you can be more direct and buy her a strapon for her next birthday present. The most obvious way would be to come right out and ask her. In bed during foreplay might be a good idea. You might be surprised at how happy your wife will be that you want her to wear a strapon.

Many men harbor secret desires to have their wives dominate them in one way or another. For many men, the ultimate action they desire is for their wives to use a strapon for anal penetration. Not only do they desire the physical stimulation, but they also crave the psychological aspect of being completely and totally dominated by a woman. But it can be hard to bring up this topic with any woman, especially one that isn't naturally dominant or hasn’t considered aspects of BDSM in the past. For many women, the idea of wearing a strapon is scary, and they feel embarrassed or uncomfortable with even the thought of dominating their husbands in this way, even if they do harbor secret desires. So how do you approach your wife and ask her to fulfill your desires of her using a strapon without scaring her or turning her off from the idea completely?

As a man you have to realize that women think and react differently when it comes to sex. Women are just as interested and have just as many kinky desires as men, and most have wondered what it would be like if the roles were reversed and they were in control in the bedroom. Yet women tend to suppress or hide these desires because of embarrassment or fear of their partner being offended or turned off. The trick is to get her to start to open up and recognize her kinky desires, and it can be helpful to share your own with her so that she feels more comfortable. But to get your wife to the point where she will openly discuss wearing a strapon, you have to take it slowly and help her to open up one tiny bit at a time, otherwise she may just shut down the conversation completely.

Start by talking to her about wanting to spice up your sex life and try something new and different (but don’t make it sound like you’re bored, just that you’re ready to go to the next level with her). Maybe mention you have a fantasy you’ve never told anyone about, and you’re not sure if she’d be open to it, but you feel like at this point in your marriage you can finally tell her. Start with asking for some basic anal penetration, or watching some movies with male anal penetration together and see how she feels about it. If she agrees, start slowly with just fingers or very small dildos, nothing too overpowering or obtrusive. Make sure you really praise her for this action, and please her with extra attention to what makes her happy in bed as a reward.

Once you’ve gotten to the point where you have started experimenting with anal penetration, then you can go ahead and make the leap and ask for her to wear a strapon. Make sure you emphasize that this would really make you happy and would fulfill your deepest fantasies, and don’t forget to give her exactly what she wants in return. Does she have any kinky desires? By this point she’ll likely open up to sharing with you what those are, so be sure to make them happen in exchange for what you want. She may even find that wearing the strapon is her secret desire, and you both will end up getting exactly what you want.

Don’t be afraid to ask your partner for what you want and need. Most likely she also wants and needs things in bed she’s not telling you because she's too shy or afraid. Once you open up this conversation, you may be surprised at how exciting your sex life becomes. Just take it slow at first, you may be rewarded with your wife in a strapon and the sex life of your dreams.

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